What generally happens in a session?

First, send your contact form through this website. I look for positive attitude and respectful wording. Before contacting Me, I will expect that you’ve got an understanding of these FAQ, My Offerings, and Expectations. It also helps to read the rest of what I’ve so carefully written on this site to make sure we are a good fit. My style as shown in my Possibilities page, and my approach are quite different than what you might be accustomed to. I realize it is quite a bit of information, but there is a reason for that – I don’t take this play lightly, and wouldn’t expect you to either. It will be My role to delve into parts of your psyche and body that few, if any, are privy to. you must be able to communicate what kind of session you’re seeking and that you can afford My guidance, as it does not come cheaply.

Our first meeting will begin with a discussion of your list of desires and limits, plus factors that will influence your play, such as not being able to leave with marks, medical concerns, or phobias. What we do during the session will be determined by our discussion, your interests, and by what I feel like doing.

I will require you to communicate with me openly during our first session, as that will help Me get to know your body for subsequent sessions. At the end of each session, you will have an opportunity to speak freely and provide feedback. I’m open to feedback that is phrased respectfully, as well as questions, concerns, and requests. While you may not get exactly what you want, at this stage you are free to ask for it.

I see that you practice both Tantra and BDSM. I worry that you are too hard for me, or too soft. Will you be able to switch gears and be just one of these qualities for our session?

Yes. One of my strengths is this versatility. It is one of My thrills to take someone to a wonderful state of being through the session, whether I use sensual or sadistic touch. I am just as pleased giving a massage as I am a hard whipping, and have the stamina to do either for long periods of time, including overnights and multi-day sessions. In fact, I don’t see Tantra and BDSM as being different approaches, but just different places on the same continuum. What we discuss and decide about the session will determine what it will be.

What are your hard limits?

I will not allow you to access my genitals orally, manually, or with any form of penetration. It’s simply outside of what My sessions are about. Other limits will be included for discussion on a scene-by-scene basis.

What if I have to cancel at the last minute?

It is my preference to limit the number of sessions I have in a given week. It allows Me the time and space to treat each session as a peak experience. Thus, cancellations affect more than my schedule. I understand that things do come up, so if you cancel, you must set a time to reschedule in order to avoid my cancellation fee. No shows, obviously, will not be rescheduled. But, you would already know this since you’ve read through My Expectations already, correct?

Is it possible to include others in our BDSM scenes?

It is negotiable. I have a Dominant personality and prefer to lead the session. However, I can invite a friend to co-top with Me, or sub, as she is a switch. I also have a male partner who can perform in a wide variety of scenes, including co-topping. If you have someone you wish to bring along, that is fine, and is part of the scene discussion and negotiation. There is separate Tribute for additional participants.

I so want to please You. What are Your favorite activities?

My moods and inclinations can vary, so it’s a difficult question to answer with a list. I thrive on the reactions of My bottoms, and look to generate the natural power exchange that occurs when we are fully engaged and present in the scene. Of course, the furniture and toys that I have in my dungeon will give you a good idea of what I enjoy, generally, as I wouldn’t have them if I didn’t like them in the first place. you can find that information under Possibilities.

I’m worried that if I tell you what I want, I’ll be topping from the bottom.

When you tell Me what interests you and what doesn’t, you enable Me to get to know you. With that, I know which buttons to push to create peak experiences. That differs from topping from the bottom, which is when you attempt to manipulate the scene while pretending to submit. You may think of it like this – it is your duty as a slave to be as pleasing to Me as possible, and to make My life easier. By making respectful suggestions, you keep to this directive, and we both win. This is not to say you may ever write me a detailed script. Not only is that removing My ability to be creative and spontaneous, but it removes you from the experience, as you risk comparing the reality to your fantasy, which is never an exact replica.

I can’t serve in person, but I am interested in long-term chastity training. Can you be my keyholder?

Yes, I am now offering this training as well. you must procure your own chastity device, and maintain honesty. I will require photos of the device and the serialized lock which numbers I record alongside the day’s newspaper. My tribute for this training is $200 per month, payable remotely.